Life could be a romance novel...

I love romance novels. Total girl porn...and I don't just mean the sexy parts(although they don't suck!). I love the impossible circumstances of the "meeting". The attraction that is so strong neither party can control themselves around the other person. The way the characters always end up together with a love that lasts forever. Sounds like an impossible dream...but it could happen! I look at my relationship with the hubby and there are days when it feels like I'm living in one of my favorite books (Jordan calls them "thighburners" just for the record). We just seem to click - days where we really make each other laugh, are affectionate and thoughtful to each other. I think I owe to both of us to figure out what makes these days happen. Do I lose anything of myself by being thoughtful and accomodating to his wants? Making him feel special makes me feel good. Why don't I do this everyday? I know our marriage is full of love and friendship that will last forever (20+ years already :)...so I'm gonna do everything I can to make it a great romance too!