If I died tomorrow...

Interesting concept. If I died tomorrow? Would my life be what I wanted it to be? Have I done all I wanted to do? For all my bravado I don't think I have said yes enough to life. I have let opportunities pass me by, I didn't risk connecting with quite a few people I have wanted to, and I haven't always been authentic to myself. How do you navigate the waters to get to what you want(or want to be)for yourself and still do what is right and responsible for those around you? There has to be a happy medium between selfish and selfless. The quest begins...